Sunday, September 26, 2010

Some ideas for a date


For many of us, romantic date ideas are as simple as a fancy dinner or a walk along the beach. In reality, romance can be found almost anywhere, in the big and the small stuff we do. Ultimately, what makes a date truly romantic is when the couple has fun spending time together and bonding.
When it comes to creating more  romance in your dating adventures, don't try too hard. Being natural and relaxed is what helps lead to true intimacy and a romantic encounter, not spendinga fortune on gifts and fancy dates. spontaneity can be as important as a planned event, so look for ways to spice up ordinary situations and surprise your date. A romantic date becomes a memory to share between a couple for many years to come.


Here are some ideas on things to do while on a date:
Magic Show
Movies are boring, and you’re not really theatre people? Try a magic show. Let the mysteries of the unknown wash over you as you sip a cocktail together and enjoy real entertainment.
Laser Tag
Does your girl have a competitive edge? Arm yourself with laser guns and enter a full-out war in a special laser tag arena. It is always best to try and be on the same side as to avoid a full-blown confrontation in the first thirty minutes of your date, but if she's actually up for laser tag, anything goes.
Scuba Diving
If you're both certified, why not scuba? Even if you're not certified, snorkelling isn't a bad choice either. Experience the wonders of the ocean floor together thirty, or three, feet under. You should always dive with a buddy, so why not make it an attractive buddy?
Deep Sea Fishing
Bobbing in the waves with endless ocean stretching out in all directions can be the perfect backdrop for a little romantic adventure – fish! Enjoy the adrenaline rush as she lands her first keeper, and you might even get to assist her as she reels it in.
Hang-gliding
If the wind and freedom speak to the both of you, why not answer the call and fly away together? Hang-gliding can be both exhilarating and peaceful at the same time, and would be wonderful to experience with the person you love, or at least like a lot.
Go-Karts
Want to race? Hop in a go-kart and see who the superior driver is once and for all! A little healthy competition can be good for a relationship, especially if there is laughter involved, too.
Hot Air Balloon
The most majestic views ever offered are available only from a dangling basket hundreds of feet in the sky. Take a hot air balloon ride and be dazzled by the vastness of the landscape as well as her expression of wonder.
Take a Stroll
Whether you prefer a casual walk or hardcore hike, walking allows for ample time to talk and connect. Try a fall hike to look at the changing leaves or pick your own flower bouquets on a spring stroll. Join a walking tour or simply window shop along the streets of your downtown - just remember to hold hands!
Mountain Biking
For a bit more of a workout and rush, try mountain biking. Rent or take your own bikes to a suitable trail, bring along some water and maybe a band-aid and you're off on a magical, jarring ride for two.
Volunteer Work
Helping others is one of the most rewarding experiences available. Why not work together in a food pantry or soup kitchen? There are always charitable organizations in need of help and working for the greater good will break down any defences and allow the two of you greater intimacy. 
Take a class
A lot of places, such as community colleges and recreation centres, offer classes on various things. A great date idea is to take a class together painting ceramics, making candles or pottery. If you can't dance, you could even take a dance class.
Sampling
Sometimes you can find a great place near your home that offers wine, cheese or desert sampling. This is great fun if you like to try new things.
Comedy Club
Everybody loves to laugh and there's no better time to laugh with somebody than on a date. Comedy Clubs are a great way to socialize and have a blast while maintaining a budget. I do suggest checking ahead of time to make sure there is comedians worth seeing! The comics don't have to be big names but it would be awful to take your date to see a stand up who she finds offensive!
Star Gazing
Being outside on a nice summer evening, laying in the grass side by side, watching the stars… Not only is this a relaxing outing, it provides the perfect opportunity for quiet intimate conversation watching nature's own light show.
Holiday Themes
If your date is around a specific holiday, take advantage and incorporate it into your plans. Enjoy a fireworks show together on the Fourth of July or take a Christmas light drive and listen to holiday music in the car.
Boat Ride
There is just something about being on the water together that simply screams romance – especially in the evening. Try a sunset canoe ride, or for the less adventuresome, take a charter boat cruise.
Skating
Whether ice or roller, skating can be fun and active way to spend a date. Even if you both haven't gone since you were kids, if you are brave, it could create a lot of laughter and memories.
Community Events
Attend a parade, visit a street fair or stroll the local farmers' market. Take your time and enjoy the sights and smells. For the most romantic touch, grab your partners hand for a little squeeze at key moments.
Be Kids Again
Play at the playground, build a snowman or share a milkshake at an old-fashioned soda fountain. Absorb the simple pleasures that are often lost as we mature into adults.
Outdoor Adventure
If you love the outdoors and so does your date, try camping together. Cuddled together by a warm fire and roasting marshmallows, enjoying the clean air and rustic smells, makes for a uniquely romantic date idea.
Play Chef
Create a candlelight dinner for your date at home. The distinctive touch of a home-made meal instantly shows your date he or she is special. To further enhance the romance, cook up a meal with textures that create a more sensuous experience.
Sunrise and Sunset
Nature's instinctive romance is instantly found in the sun's show each morning and evening. Whether at the beach or park, watching the sun rise or set seems to push the romance button in all of us.

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